In Person, in Sotogrande
For those based on the Costa del Sol who'd like to work with me face to face, here in Sotogrande.
RTT® Practitioner · Trained under Marisa Peer · 24+ years in corporate finance · Sotogrande & online worldwide
The belief beneath the pattern
One Pattern, Different Symptoms
You've probably put a name to it, anxiety, burnout, low self-esteem, people-pleasing, maybe one fits exactly, maybe none of them quite capture it. Either way, the label isn't the root of it. In RTT, decades of therapeutic work point to the same thing, again and again: whatever it looks like on the surface, it almost always comes back to one of three beliefs.
- 1. You're not enough.
- 2. You're different.
- 3. What you need isn't available to you.
The symptoms look varied for everyone, anxiety, low self-worth, emotional blocks, fears and phobias, people-pleasing, a body that won't stop sending warning signs, but underneath, it's almost always one of these three. That's what we go after.
A little about Marjan
Iran, to the UK, to Spain, and Back to Myself
My own path has taken me from Iran, to the UK, to Spain, and through a career, a health crisis, and a divorce all of which taught me more than any qualification ever could.
Being Persian, and having lived across three cultures, I understand this pattern from more than one side, wherever it took root for you.
Read my story ↗Three ways the pattern can appear
"Does This Sound Familiar?"
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Someone needs help. You don't ask yourself if you can. You just find a way.
The time, the energy, the resources, you'll find them somehow, you always do. Saying no was never really on the table. But at what cost, a constant hum of anxiety, feeling not enough, needing to prove yourself all the time, driven by the belief that you are not enough.
You don't need anyone to tell you you're good at this. You just can't stop proving it anyway.
Another deal closed, another year of growth, another version of yourself that looks like success from the outside. And still, some part of you keeps working like the moment you stop, you'll disappear, driven by the belief that what you need will never be there for you.
Sometimes what brings you in is simply pain.
A relationship that's grown distant, a sadness you can't quite explain. It's often in sitting with that pain that a deeper pattern reveals itself underneath, driven by the belief that you are different.
A considered approach
The Root & Rise Method
I work through what I call the Root & Rise Method, using Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) and hypnotherapy to go to the root of the unspoken contract you've been silently living by, and rising into a life you no longer have to prove yourself worthy of.
How I work ↗Client words
What My Clients Say
Jennifer · Relationships & Self-Worth
“I kept attracting the wrong men into my life and couldn't figure out why... I realised I had been hard-wired to feel unworthy of love, and that in order to receive love, I had to put others before myself. After our session, I no longer need the validation from others to feel loved because I finally truly love myself.”
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How We'd Work Together
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Online, Wherever You Are
For clients anywhere in the world, the same depth of work, from your own space.
A gentle next step
You Don’t Have to Keep Earning What Was Always Yours
Let's find out who you really are, away from everyone else's expectations. You have abandoned the one person you cannot live without: yourself. Let's talk about what coming home to yourself could look like for you.
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